Rosemond busts up the concrete warehouse of “Postmodern Psychological Parenting” that dominates seminars and bookstores. Having been part of that machine for decades, he deftly shows why overcooked self-esteem “methods” don’t work.

He differentiates between legitimate medical diagnoses and assembly line tagging. He calls things what they are, giving biblical and functional communication advice on things like character development, self-respect over self-esteem, leadership discipline, homework, even curfews.

At the end of each chapter are “Questions for Group Discussion or Personal Reflection.” This is a great tool for personal use or group study.

Rosemond could have shared stories of enjoying children—anecdotes involving humor and affection. I suppose he knew parents were saturated with the “your kids are the best things since gummy worms” message.

It’s the tough stuff we need to hear again. Rosemond delivers in this empowering and encouraging resource.

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