Ministry Is Hard Work. Right?

"We always thank God for all of you and continually mention you in our prayers. We remember before our God and Father your work produced by faith, your labor prompted by love, and your endurance inspired by hop...

The Bondage of the Impossible

To many, many Christians this verse is something to strive after: "Be holy because I, the LORD your God, am holy" (Leviticus 19:2). For the record, this is an impossibility period.Really?So many things are runn...

Trusting Versus Enabling and Codependency

"An enabler in most definitions is a person who through his or her actions allows someone else to achieve something. Most often the term enabler is associated with people who allow loved ones to behave in ways ...

Difficult Days Ahead

What Are Your Students Hearing from You?When I started doing the student ministry thing—late 80s—I'll admit I was intentional about ruffling the legalists' feathers. OK, maybe I made my counterparts...

Control This!

When my sons were 4 and 6, I was at church on a Sunday morning—I was at work as the youth pastor. The head usher came up to me after the service and said, "Did you see what your kids were doing during the...