“Trust in God with all your heart, and do not rely upon your own insight” (Prov. 3:5).

One summer, when I was 10 or 11 years old, my father and I spent a great deal of time fishing together. We often would rise early in the morning or sometimes camp out overnight. During these days, we would have conversations about life, school, decisions that needed to be made.One of my father’s most common phrases was, “Trust me.” He would say something such as, “When you get older, you will discover that it is difficult to work a job…trust me on this.” Or, “You won’t ever understand girls…trust me on this.”

As I grew older, I sometimes noted the wisdom of my father’s thought. At other times, I questioned it. Still, throughout my life I have noted the attitude of trust that was evident in those early talks. Faith is the same way.

I am convinced—after 35 years of pastoral ministry—that many people struggle with faith because they struggle with trust issues—teenagers included. Perhaps they have seen their parents’ broken marriages, or they have seen a parent laid off from a job…These are broken trusts, and there are many others. We now live in a culture where trust is often difficult to find. We often hear the phrase, “Trust no one.”

However, faith in God demands our trust. As the writer of Proverbs noted, when we rely upon our own insights, we can miss God’s favor and leading. Instead of following the Creator, we can find ourselves following our own lead, our own plans.

Consider the faith you have. What level of trust are you following? How might your faith/trust be evident to those who are looking to your leadership and insights?

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DAN ISTVANIK is a 22 year youth ministry veteran currently as the 5th-8th grade pastor at Victory Church in Lancaster, PA. He has served in churches in Pennsylvania, Louisiana, Wisconsin, Ohio, and Washington DC. He is the lead writer for Parent Ministry.Com and a regular contributor to other great ministry resources. He has been married for over 16 years to his partner in ministry, Melissa. Together they have two children. Jenna and Kaleb.

Todd Outcalt is the lead pastor of Calvary United Methodist Church in Brownsburg, Indiana and is a thirty-year youth ministry veteran. He is the author of twenty-five books in six languages, including the youth ministry titles: $5 Youth Ministry (Group); Last-Minute Meetings (Abingdon); Ready to Go Youth Meetings (Abingdon); and The Youth Ministry Encyclopedia (Kindle).

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