When I was a teenager, I had several good friends. It seemed we were always together; and if one of us found ourselves in trouble, we were all in trouble. Likewise, we accomplished many good things working as a team, and some of my fondest memories consisted of working jobs side-by-side or having long discussions about life.
One fall, I received word that one of my best friends had been hit by a car and killed. This was devastating news, and I recall trying to make sense of this deep grief and loss.
I also recall the pastor saying at this friend’s funeral that it was important for the rest of us to continue our good fight of faith. The pastor said we all were making a statement in the way we lived, worked and related to each other. I never have forgotten that idea and have tried to incorporate it into my life ever since.
No doubt there are many teenagers in our respective youth groups who struggle with finding a purpose and meaning in their lives. Some teenagers fall into despair and hopelessness. However, as leaders, we can be a source of encouragement and strength to those who may need a reason to live lives of faith.
Where can we help our teenagers in their struggles? What can we say and do that might be a source of encouragement? These are not small or unimportant questions.
