What the Word Says:

Suppose a man comes into your meeting wearing a gold ring and fine clothes, and a poor man in shabby clothes also comes in. If you show special attention to the man wearing fine clothes and say, "Here's a good seat for you," but say to the poor man, "You stand there" or "Sit on the floor by my feet," have you not discriminated among yourselves and become judges with evil thoughts? (James 2:2-4)

How It Applies:

Rarely are outer appearances a true indication of inner worth. The Book of James warns us against treating some people differently than others. The only remedy comes by asking God to give us his heart for others rather than trying to work it up for ourselves; by focusing on our own blessings rather than being jealous of others'; and by asking God to show us how he sees us—as well as those around us.     

Questions for group discussion:

       ·         Do you think God sees everyone the same? Why or why not?

·         How do you think God views you? Where do you get that idea?

·         Go around the group so as many people as possible can participate (or, if the group is especially large, have students write their answers on pieces of paper). Ask: What is one thing you'd like to change about yourself? How do you think God can help?

·         Why might being seen with a person who looks rich be more appealing than being with one who doesn't?

·         What do you think it means to love your neighbor as yourself?